Emotional Warfare

Returning to school brings emotional warfare. Unending feelings of exhaustion, defeat, and invisibility claim you. It is a spiritual fight.

Fantasy author Sara Ella touches on that disease of the soul, depression. Now is a good time to read her book Coral before the first shot is fired.

I translated Mark 15:29-31 last week. The men “mocking” Jesus and the passersby “railing” on him are different evils. How so?

The passersby attacked Jesus’ reputation, speaking about him. Imagine: Mary his widowed mother and John his best friend forced to listen as ignorant people gossiped. Emotional warfare.

But the religious leaders heaped up insults upon Jesus, making certain that he heard every word. Mary and John were standing right there. It was emotional warfare, but they won.

In an infinite moment Jesus saved the world by obeying God’s will for his life. God warns his children of suffering while demanding the sacrifice of praise. It’s a sacrifice. It hurts, but it heals.

When you are the talk of the passersby… When you are bearing your cross… Do you have a clear vision of God’s will for you? You can’t win the war on your emotions without it.

Dropping the Bomb, the F Bomb

Don’t do it. Once you know the meaning of the F Bomb word, please stop.

In old England when someone committed a heinous crime, part of the stigma was that the act was called the perp’s name.

What was the F Bomber’s crime? Rape. When you drop this bomb, you are threatening to do it or asking God to make someone else do it for you.

A jerk cuts you off in traffic. Will you administer this punishment? A “friend” embarrasses you in front of others. Do you drag her into the locker room? Some would. Would you?

Yes, I know. The F bomb is hyperbole. It’s an exaggerated response to a real offense. But I cringe every time I hear it. Why?

A third grader was lured into a closet by a school janitor. And then her classmate. A high school friend’s stepfather insisted that she walk home from work. One night a stranger dragged her off the road.

A male college friend was put to a knife. And he never quite recovered.

Then there are the stories my students tell. And their parents corroborate.

Don’t do it. Please, don’t drop the F bomb. Not on me, or anyone else.

Sacrificing Your Dreams

Fantasy writer, Philip Wilder, challenges you to sacrifice your dreams for God’s dreams for you. Think about your hopes for the future. Will you resent God for the hopes He doesn’t fulfill? Or will you thank Him for giving you better dreams?

As I look back on my life, I see many unfulfilled dreams. But my translation for the day was Mark 15:25. “And it was the third hour, and they crucified [Jesus].”

No spouse, no children, no house, no land, no book contract, and no movie deal: Christ sacrificed mankind’s dreams for the will of the Father.

Our Father loves His children. Trust Him.

So what dreams are you willing to sacrifice to gain the dreams from doing God’s will?

How to Thrill a Friend

He likes it! He came right out and said that he could not put the book down. At the end of the book, he was upset because it was over. There is no higher praise.

But chapter 2 stinks. No, that is not what he said, but it’s what I heard. Why was this not a killer? Why am I thrilled at this lashing? Because he gave suggestions for reversing the air flow. I praise God for that young man again and again. He is a friend. The wounds delivered by a friend are faithful.

The changes will not be easy, but in them there is hope.

How to Kill a Friend

I knew that writing is hard, but I wrote. I also knew that criticism would come, but I wrote. When my courage was sufficient, I shared my book. And then I died.

The first blow came from the silence. So, does that mean you hate it? Then could you let me know that? That way I will know that you hate my book, not me.

But the second strike seemed backhanded. A romance reader (poor thing) said my book is emotive which makes it hard to read. Romance novels aren’t emotion driven? Well, that explains a lot.

Next came a mortal blow: Where is God in this book? Asking God for help, God’s encouragement – Those don’t count?

Death came slowly. He lingered long. But praise God! He didn’t stay.